It is one thing to feel fat. It is another thing for someone who is prominent in your life to call you fat.
Let me back up.
I am closing in on 23 weeks and I think my current 18 pound gain is acceptable. Sure I wish it was a bit lower but honestly, I am still within the guidelines for a healthy pregnancy. And for the most part it is all belly. Yes there is some deposits on my but and thighs but give me a break! When baby asks for icecream I have to give it to her!
Well I have someone - not going to name names, not even fake ones - who has currently lost quite a bit of weight. She went from a size 12 to an 8, maybe even a six. She made some changes in her life and weight was one of them. Good for her, I was happy. She had always been heavier than me and now she is not. But she has turned into a total biotch. Not only is she dressy trampy but she takes every opportunity to me how hot she is or how someone checked her out. And lately - how fat I have gotten. HELLO! I am pregnant! Now is not the time to be dieting for me.
When she was pregnant, she gain 75 pounds. I never said a word till a couple days before delivery and I said nice waddle - I was joking. Well now she is taking every opportunity to tell me how fat I am. Not only does it hurt but it pisses me off. I am not the one with all my goodies hanging out. I at least have the decency to cover up.
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Aw, it sounds like even though she has lost weight - she is still insecure and is going to try and make you feel bad to make herself feel better. I am shocked that anyone would call a pregnant woman fat. You look beautiful! Wear your 'baby weight' proudly! I would kill her with kindness by telling her how great she looks and that you love your baby body! Good luck!
your bbc stalker-friend,
JenMonty!
p.s. ick that she is letting it all hang out - I am all for modesty!
anyone call a pregnant woman fat doesn't have to carry the word 'man'
Just mention to her that she'll gain it all back and then some within 5 years. Because everyone (research says 95%) does.
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